Baby,3
Hi I'm new to the group, but really could do with some support. So 35 weeks pregnant with 3rd baby from finding out till now this pregnancy has been a nightmare. First was the morning sickness, then pneumonia, then cholistatis and now to top it all off carpal tunnel syndrome. I have 2 older children 7 and 9 and im full time carer to my husband who has Asperger's. Last few weeks my children have been really naughty and my husband is constantly arguing with them I feel like a permanent referee, due to all of this my mental health is suffering on bad days I feel like leaving them all. Any advice please? 
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familylives
Hi, thank you for your post. It sounds like you are completely exhausted and drained from playing referee with your husband and the kids. Have you told him how you feel? Could you show him or tell him what you need from him and help him manage his conflict in a more positive way? I feel you could do with some support and more comprehensive advice and would ask you to email our team at askus@familylives.org.uk. You can call us on our helpline too on 0808 800 2222. If you are finding it a struggle to talk to him, perhaps you can ask the midwife to have a chat with him too. 
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