sarahjm
Our 23 year old daughter moved out 3 months ago, due to a row with her father.  The row was due to her behaviour which had pushed us to the very edge.  Our daughter has a good job, very nice car and after her continually moaning, lived in our house, whilst not paying any housekeep.  Since she has moved out, her siblings have been invited to her rented house but, even after asking for her address, our daughter has not let us know this or even asked us round.  Over the years, myself and my husband have worked ourselves to the limit so that our children have had a decent home, been ferried here there are everywhere and now find it hurtful that we are treated like this.  I don't see why we should keep asking for her address and have now dug my heels in and am thinking I will wait for her to come to us but... I'm not sure we are doing the right thing.
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familylives
Hi, I understand that this is a difficult situation. Since your daughter is an adult, the only thing you can do is try to contact her or wait her out. The right thing? It's up to her whether she gives you her address or not and there isn't much you can do. Have you discussed the situation with your other children, what do they think? Get some advice from the people who know her. If you feel you need further support please e-mail us at askus@famiylives.org.uk or call our freephone helpline on 0808 800 2222.
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