So last September, my wife and I separated, it wasn't fun but I thought we could remain friends and amicable. As the year went on it became apparent this would not be the case. A lot of what was the downfall of our relationship came to light and angered and disappointed me greatly, a lot of lies, deception and manipulation. She has made my life increasingly difficult with my new partner which I can't abide by, shes tried using my kids are weapons and continued to manipulate me.
I have applied for mediation and put together a parenting agreement, I am desperate to implicate more routine, structure and boundaries so I can move on and have as little to do with her as possible. I want my children to be happy and to know they are loved, not be forced into a childish adult situation being used as pawns in a silly game to get one over.
Is there anything else anyone would recommend?