I’ve been with my partner for 10 years and we have a 2&5yr old, we aren’t married.
We want very different things in each other & I think we are both unhappy but just muddling through. I want to end the relationship but feel trapped as only work part time due to young children and money is tight. I don’t see how I can afford to be on my own. I don’t have that kind of support/relationship from my family and I would want to keep disruption to the kids (school etc) to a minimum. I don’t have any bad feeling to my partner so would want him to see the kids as much as he can.
I don’t know how to change things or who to talk to to get advice.