I just applied for divorce today. My husband has got no clue. All hell is gonna break loose when he finds out next week. How can i be strong when everyone tries to emotionally Blackmail me. I know he will turn my 15 year old against me. And we also have 2 boys aged 3 and 2. We have been married 20 years but the marriage has been doomed since day 1. I did apply for divorce twice and withdrew the applications as i couldn't stand the emotional  blackmsil. I just need guidance anand support thriugh this. 
Hi, I understand that this is a difficult and upsetting situation. I know this goes without saying but you have to stay strong and remember the reasons why you want to divorce him whenever someone tries to test your resolve. Do you have anyone you can talk to? A family member or a friend who will understand and give you support, someone who you can contact when you feel pressured. You may find our articles on divorce and separation helpful. If you feel you need further support please e-mail us at askus@familylives.org.uk or call our freephone helpline on 0808 800 2222.