I am feeling so isolated living in same house as my separated husband. We are now not speaking but I cannot move out until we have a financial order in place as I need maintenance to be able to move out. He has also turned my adult kids against me. Life is unbearable. 
Hi Deb

Thank you for your post. I am so sorry that you are in such an horrendous environment. I sense you are feeling very low and completely drained and this must be so awful for you. it sounds as though you could do with some emotional support as well as some advice and would strongly encourage you to speak to our team in confidence. You can email us at or call our helpline on 0808 800 2222. We are here for you so please do not feel alone. 
Deb, I’m in a similar situation. My husband filed for divorce in secret a year ago and we still live under the same roof. Some days are easier than others. He has moved on with a new partner but I’m unable to while we live together. How is it fair?