Hi  I am looking for advice on consequences of actions. Eg  When I ask him for example to clean his teeth comb his hair, his reaction dont have time now. Another eg Tidy your bedroom I will do it later.
We also have trouble getting him to school, the school are aware and we are working with them but if he doesnt want to go he just wont get out of bed. You cant force them anymore, what do other people do I need advice Please.
Hi, I understand that this is a difficult situation. I robust discipline and rewards system provides structure to a child. If he feels as though he should always be doing whatever he wants, maybe stay with him and not allow him to do anything else until the task has been done. If he doesn't want to go to school then he doesn't get to do the things he wants to do. You may find it helpful to read our articles on children and learning and child behaviour. If you feel you need further support please e-mail us at askus@familylives.org.uk or call our freephone helpline on 0808 800 2222.