Brokendad
Hi here goes my child is being put into care due to his aggression he's autistic and adhd. He's stopped going skl and refusing to take medication. He lives with his mum and things are out of control there. With outbursts of verbal abuse and aggressive behaviour. Over the years we have tried all different ways to manage him and gave all the love needed. But just to fail each time. He rules the house with aggressive behaviour and others don't wanna be around him he's 13 now and getting bigger and stronger. As his dad I feel broken inside like I've failed him. Also the system has failed by this getting this far as begged for help over the years 
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familylives
Hi, I understand that this is a difficult and upsetting situation. It's perfectly normal to feel the way you're feeling right now, but it's obvious that you and your son's family have tried a lot and what are you supposed to do if the systems that are supposed to help you don't seem to do anything? What would you say to someone else in your position? You could get in contact, if you aren't already, with the National Autistic Society for support and advice, you can call their helpline on 0808 800 4104, 10am – 12pm and 1pm - 3pm, Monday to Friday (excluding bank holidays). Young Minds are another organisation that you could contact, they help families in similar situations to yourself, you can call them on 0808 802 5544. You may find it helpful to read our articles on Social Services. If you feel you need further support please e-mail us at askus@familylives.org.uk or contact us through our live chat service which is open, Monday to Friday between 1.30pm and 5.30pm or call our freephone helpline on 0808 800 2222.
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