Markyp
Me and my wife have a 10 year old son who is completely nasty and rude to us both. He shouts at us calls us names he wants to die he wants me to kill him. He attacks my wife and then he bangs his head against the wall. 

I am at the end of my feather with it all whatever we do does not work.
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familylives
Hi, I understand that this is a difficult and troubling situation. This is extreme and troubling behaviour. Have you discussed his behaviour with a GP? He could get a referral for assessment. Does he act like this at school? Have you asked him why he wants to die? Ask him where this has all come from, try to stay calm even if he starts yelling. Understanding his perspective can give you insight to help when dealing with his beahviour. Consistency is important to discipline, stick to your guns and create boundaries. You may find it helpful to read our articles on child behaviour. If you feel you need further support please e-mail us at askus@familylives.org.uk or call our freephone helpline on 0808 800 2222.
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Lost
I know how you feel, our 11 year old is the same.   My problem is that my wife seems to want to pick fights with him all the time. She's not prepared to alter the way she approaches him,  so it always turns into a shouting match. 
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Skeeble
I feel your pain, my son is exactly the same. X
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